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Mates that Wanted Out

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There was a lot of great information. For the spouse that has cheated or is thinking about cheating, it has the ability to make then take a second look at their motives, actions and how the other spouse feels. If they are willing to read "When a Mate Wants Out" it gives them a glimpse of what the other partner may be experiencing. Most importantly is gives the partner who has been hurt the opportunity to see that anything is possible through Christ and just because one spouse says it's over...God may say differently. It gives hope in a situation that may seem doomed for failure. It only takes one partner to believe and have faith. God does the rest!!!! It changes attitudes and mindsets while you heal the broken places.

Secrets for Saving a Marriage

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I got a lot of help from this book.It is from a christian viewpoint, and that is what I was looking for. God wants us to have a happy marriage and He does not want us to take any type of abuse, physical or mental. If you are a christian and you need good advice,you really want to save your marriage, this is a wonderful book

Too "religious"

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This book gave me food for thought. However it was "too religious" for me and the general population. It was a little "blaming" of the left-out spouse.

Common sence

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I felt this book was well planned. The research and insight was eye opening and helpful. I now see quite a bit of inner strength to see this situation through to the end. Even if he does continue on with the divorce, as I was told as recently as yesterday, nothing is set in stone. Changes in myself have already caused changes in my husband which he is very surprized and confused by. With what I have learned and God's help, this situation can be turned around.

Better books exist

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Since the break up of our 6 year relationship I have purchased many books. This one was not as helpful as the others because the information was very introductory and not deep enough. It seemed like the book is saying that God is the answer to saving the marriage. Maybe true, but I was hoping for a book with more deep psychological analysis. I recommend the books "Letting Go" by Dr. Tracy Cabot, and "Make Up Don't Break Up" by Dr. Bonnie Eaker Weil.